Students’ Highlights 9/11/2023 – 9/15/2023
- PE- Flag Football, Crossover
- Math- Division
- Science- magnetic forces
- Art- Blending colors, optical illusions
- language Arts- learning parargraph spacing, first and third person narrators
- Spanish- sang Amor Eterno, writing notes in Spanish
- chapel- Easy to pull someone down and hard to lift someone up, Go in Peace to Love and Serve the Lord
- Music- Playing Mary Had a Little Lamb on piano, playing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star on ukulele
A recently read article from Love and Logic describes different types of parenting styles and how those styles influence building grit. We admit that we have been each of the parents described in the article at times, while raising our own children. Now, our parenting fiascos are some of the humorous “Remember when…” stories when visiting with our adult children. We are glad that they understand that our actions always came from our love for them. Hopefully, they will reflect on our parenting as more of a consultant than the other styles. Enjoy reading.
Building Grit Versus Stealing Grit from Love and Logic
“Grit is the ability to persevere in the face of challenges and difficulties and it is something that is learned primarily through experience. Love and Logic contrasts two very common parenting styles—Helicopter Parents and Drill Sergeant Parents. Both parenting types steal the opportunity for kids to develop grit through experience.
Helicopter parents steal this experience from their kids by protecting them from struggling with problems. Drill Sergeant parents also steal this experience through sending the message that their kids can’t think and do for themselves, so the parent must do this for them.
In contrast to these two parenting styles, Consultant parents (Love and Logic parents) allow kids to learn perseverance through experience. These parents know that experience and consequences do the best teaching, even though kids will be challenged in the short term.
True achievement comes through struggle and perseverance, which is the key to building grit. There is no doubt that kids who develop grit through experience will lead happier and more productive lives than those who don’t. Listed below are few “grit stealers” with corresponding “grit builders.”
Grit Stealer: Micromanage or rescue your kids.
Grit Builder: Allow your kids to make affordable mistakes and live with the consequences.
Grit Stealer: Constantly tell them that they are bright, gifted, or exceptionally talented.
Grit Builder: Celebrate effort, hard work, and perseverance.
Grit Stealer: Immediately gratify their desires.
Grit Builder: Let them wait for what they want.
Grit Stealer: Talk badly about yourself.
Grit Builder: Show your kids that you maintain a positive attitude when you make mistakes.
Grit Stealer: Model perfectionism
Grit Builder: Let them see you make mistakes.
Grit Stealer: Try to always keep them happy. Give them the impression that life should never be upsetting or stressful.
Grit Builder: Allow them to experience a natural and full range of emotions. Show that you care by expressing empathy.
Teaching perseverance isn’t complicated. It requires a willingness to allow kids to experience healthy challenges as they grow. It also requires that we let them see that they have what it takes to cope with life’s challenges.
As you know, next week will be BUSY! We have school photos next week as well as well as our Language Arts unit test. We will also be doing our first standardized tests. As such, we decided to dedicate our community time this week to practicing with the i-pads. We logged in, did some sample questions, and got a chance to experience some of the ways that the questions will be delivered. This was a great investment because we could answer authentic questions and the kids could get a sneak peek at what next week will bring.
Reminders
- September 19th: Class Picture- wear red top and khaki bottom
- September20th: Individual Picture- dress to impress
- September 29th: Library Visit to the Wilmot Branch- bring your library card
- November 21st: Grand Friends Day
- December 15th: Field Trip to Tucson Presidio
Lesson 6 Spelling Words with Final Double Consonants
1. well
2. miss
3. puff
4. fill
5. smell
6. guess
7. spill
8. stuff
9. unless
10. grill